18. Si zachilendo kuti mphaka asadye, kumwa, kapena kukodza poyamba akamalowa m’nyumba. Chifukwa chake n'chakuti sichinagwirizane ndi malo atsopano ndipo ndi mantha kwambiri. Khalani chete ndipo musasokoneze mphaka nthawi zonse. Ikani madzi ndi zinyalala, ikani zakudya zokoma (monga zitini), ndipo dikirani kuti mphaka afufuze nyumba yanu ndikubwera kwa inu. Nthawi zambiri amachira msanga. 19 mphaka basi neutered chilonda ululu, mankhwala ochititsa mphamvu si kutha, pamodzi ndi mantha, masiku oyambirira a anthu amakonda kuyankha ndi wabwinobwino, si kukwiyira. Palibe chifukwa "kusewera" ndi dokotala mukakhala neuter. Mphaka amatha kuzindikira nkhawa ndi kukhumudwa m'maso mwanu. Kwa mphaka, wopanda thandizo, osati "cajoling", "kuchita", amafunikira "iwe mozungulira" kuti apereke chidziwitso cha chitetezo ah.opanga ziweto
20 maso amphaka pamwamba, tsitsi kutsogolo kwa makutu ndi ochepa, izi ndizofala kwambiri, osati matenda, musadandaule, malinga ngati palibe chilonda ndi chotupa ndi chachilendo. Wonyansa ndi wonyansa. 21. Titha kudziwa kuti ndi zinthu ziti za amphaka, zomwe ndi za anthu, zomwe ndi zinyalala za amphaka, ndi zimbudzi za amphaka, koma amphaka sangadziwe. Kwa mphaka, bokosi la zinyalala lopanda kanthu silimasiyana ndi bokosi la zinyalala. Mpira waubweya waung’ono ukhoza kusewera ndi kabotolo kakang’ono ka mafuta onunkhiritsa, ndipo sadziwa kuti unamugulira uti komanso uti unagula wekha. Ndiye ngati mphaka sakonda zomwe mwagula, ingovomerezani kuti kugula kwalephera ndipo musaimbe mlandu paka.opanga ziweto
22. Kaŵirikaŵiri, banja limakhala ndi amphaka atatu ochuluka, ndipo enanso mosapeŵeka angayambitse kusamalidwa bwino. Zoyipa za fosholo, kudyetsa, kuseweretsa, kusewera, kukumbatirana,opanga ziwetokutsuka, kukongoletsa, etc., ndi nthawi yambiri.
23. Anthu okalamba nthawi zambiri amanena kuti mphaka ukhoza kuperekedwa mwezi wathunthu, koma ndikulangiza kuti tisalole mwana wa mphaka kusiya amayi ake mofulumira. Komano, ana amphaka amafunika kuphunzira kugwiritsa ntchito bokosi la zinyalala komanso momwe angagwirire bwino ndi anthu. Mavuto a khalidwe monga kuluma ndi kukodza nthawi zambiri amagwirizana ndi kusiya amayi anu mofulumira kwambiri, ndipo ndi bwino kusunga ana amphongo ndi amayi awo mpaka atakwanitsa miyezi iwiri kapena itatu.
24. Ndodo ya mphaka ndi chinthu chabwino. Amphaka osungidwa m'nyumba sagwira ntchito kwambiri, zomwe zingayambitse kupsinjika maganizo kapena kunenepa kwambiri. Kungopatula mphindi zochepa tsiku lililonse kuti muzisewera ndi mphaka wanu kungakhale njira yabwino yochepetsera nkhawa komanso kuchepa thupi. Zingathenso kuchepetsa kuwonongeka kwa mphaka wanu pa mipando ina ndi banja lanu. Kusewera musanagone kungathandize mphaka wanu kukhala pansi usiku ndikukuthandizani kugona bwino.
25. Amphaka amakhala ndi phokoso kwambiri usiku ndipo amafunika kusintha mawotchi awo. Sewerani nawo kwambiri masana, mulole kugona pang'ono; Ndipo sewera nayo pang'ono musanagone usiku. Mutha kusewera maulendo atatu, kuzungulira koyamba kutopa kuti mupumule kwa mphindi zingapo, kenako kuzungulira kwachiwiri kutopa kuti mupumule kwa mphindi zingapo musanasewere kuzungulira kwachitatu. Ndiye mukhoza kumupatsa chakudya chabwino, ndipo mwina adzagona usiku wonse. Izi sizothandiza kwambiri ndi ana amphaka omwe ali ndi miyezi ingapo chifukwa amakhala amphamvu kwambiri. 26 mphaka (miyezi 2 mpaka chaka chimodzi) wopusa, wokonda kukanda ndi kuluma anthu, ndi chilengedwe, ngati mwana wosamvera wopanduka, njira yabwino ndiyo kupirira + kubisala, osasewera nayo, kugwiritsa ntchito ndodo ya mphaka. Sewerani ndi kugwiritsa ntchito kwambiri mphamvu zake zakuthupi, sizikhala zogwira ntchito kwa inu "kuukira". Dulani misomali yake kawirikawiri. 27. Amphaka amakhala ndi zokumbukira zabwino kwambiri. Ngati mukhala miyezi ingapo ndi mphaka, idzakukumbukirani kwa nthawi yaitali, osachepera chaka chimodzi kapena theka. Tikakhala limodzi nthawi yayitali, timakumbukiranso nthawi yayitali. Ngati simunakhale pamodzi nthawi yaitali, mphaka mwina adzayiwala za inu patapita kanthawi, pokhapokha chinachake chochititsa chidwi chachitika pakati panu. Amphaka akhanda amakhala ndi zikumbukiro zoipa kuposa akuluakulu.
Nthawi yotumiza: Oct-13-2022