Momwe mungakhalire ndi amphaka ogulitsa ziweto

38. Ngati mukufuna kukhudza mphaka watsopano kapena wonyada, musafikire nthawi yomweyo kumutu kapena kumbuyo. Njira yolondola yochitira izi ndi kusunga thupi lanu kutali ndi mphaka, pang'onopang'ono kufika ndikuyika dzanja lanu patsogolo pa mphuno ya mphaka kuti amve kununkhiza, pamodzi ndi maso odekha ndi mawu. Ndiyo njira yoyenera yoperekera moni kwa mphaka. Ngati amva fungo la dzanja lanu ndipo silimamuvutitsa, mukhoza kuyesa kusuntha dzanja lanu mofatsa kumbali kuti mugwire mutu kapena kumbuyo kwa mphaka. Ngati mphaka amakunyalanyazani ndipo ngakhale kukuchenjezani, perekani mwamsanga, musachite, kukwapula kwa mphaka kumapweteka.ogawa ziweto

39. N’chifukwa chiyani nthawi zina ukagwira mutu wa mphaka, mphaka amapewa kapena kukweza M’MAPAJA ndi kukumenya mbama? Tangoganizani ngati chilombo chowirikiza kakhumi kukula kwanu chakufikira ndi chikhadabo chachikulu kuposa mutu wanu ndikulunjika pamalo omwe ali pamwamba pamutu panu. Kodi mwachibadwa mungapeŵe kuyesetsa kuliletsa? Nthawi zambiri mumaganiza kuti khalidwe la mphaka silingakhulupirire, kwenikweni, muyenera kungodziyika nokha mu nsapato za paka, nthawi yomweyo mumvetse.ogawa ziweto

40. Simuyenera kuleredwa amphaka kuti akupsopsoneni. Otchedwa achibale akuphatikizapo mbali ziwiri: khalidwe ndi kukhulupirirana.ogawa ziwetoKaya ndi mphaka wa miyezi iwiri kapena mphaka wazaka zisanu ndi ziwiri kapena zisanu ndi zitatu, kuyanjana koyenera, kokwanira kungapangitse kukhulupirirana ndikupangitsa kuti anthu azigwirizana bwino. Mwachindunji MMENE KUGWIRITSA NTCHITO KUKHALA NDI MAKHALIDWE, AMPHAKA ENA NDI AMANTHU, ngakhale ataleredwa ali mwana AMAKHALA tcheru kwambiri, amphaka ena amakhala olimba mtima, nthawi yoyamba kuona kuyerekeza kutembenuza mimba kwa munthuyo. Amphaka ena amakhala odziimira okha ndipo mwachibadwa samamatira, pamene ena amakhala amoyo komanso owolowa manja komanso amakonda kuyanjana ndi anthu, zomwe zimakakamira. Ndiye ngakhale nditakhala ndi mphaka wamkulu, ndikupsopsona momwe ndiyenera kukhalira. 41. M'chilimwe, pamene nyumba yanu ili ndi mpweya wozizira, ndi bwino kukonza bulangeti lofunda la mphaka wanu kuti likhale ndi malo otentha pamene kuli kozizira.

42. Osagula chakudya chilichonse cha mphaka, mpunga wa mphaka kapena mphaka wamzitini. Amachitcha "zachinsinsi" bwino kwambiri, ndi "masonkhano ang'onoang'ono" poyipa kwambiri. Ngakhale cholinga choyambirira cha wogulitsa ndi chabwino, koma chakudya cha ziweto sichingachitike ndi mtima, akatswiri, ndalama, zida ndi gulu, sangathe kuchita.

43. Kodi mphaka wokongola kwambiri ndi wotani? Osati mtundu wa mphaka, koma mphaka amene wina amakonda ndi kukonda. Amphaka omwe amakondedwa amakhala okondedwa kwambiri akamakula. Amapereka chidaliro ndi chisomo, chomwe ndi chimodzi mwa makhalidwe abwino kwambiri. Kaya ndi wodekha kapena wochenjera, kusuntha kulikonse kumakhala ndi malingaliro ang'onoang'ono omwe amawululidwa, ngakhale maso akuwala. Ndipo mphaka WOTI PALIBE AMAWAWUTSA ADZAKHALA KUCHEZA KWAMBIRI, MAWU NDI MIZWA, MTIRI WA TSIWIRI NDI WABWINO, MZIMU NDI AYI, OSAFUNA KUGWIRITSA NTCHITO NDI MUNTHU MPHAMVU YOMWEYO, MUWAONE, MUWERENGA MBWINO' T KUGWIRIZANA NDI MAWU AWIRI “OKONGOLA”.

44. Oyang’anira ndi chinthu chabwino. Makamaka ogwira ntchito muofesi ndi mabanja amphaka ambiri, mphaka aliyense amatha kuyang'aniridwa nthawi zonse. Zoyenera kudya, kuchuluka kwa kudya, kuchita chimbudzi ndi kukodza. Ngati mphaka sakumva bwino, chidziwitso chochokera ku polojekiti chingakhale chofunikira kwambiri. Ngati mukufunikira kuchoka m'nyumba kwa masiku angapo (m'kati mwa sabata) ndikusiya mphaka yekha, chowunikira ndi chofunikira kuwonjezera pa chakudya chabwino ndi zinyalala zamadzi. Nthawi zina imatha kujambula zithunzi zosangalatsa kwambiri.

45 Nthawi zonse mphaka amakwiya, mphaka amakunyalanyazani, mphaka kukuvutitsani, mutu wawung'ono wa mphaka ndi wawung'ono kwambiri, IQ ndi yaying'ono kwambiri, osati zovuta zambiri komanso zowawa, timawakonda, nthawi zambiri timakonda kupereka mwachinyengo. ena amakhudzidwa ndi malingaliro aumunthu, koma musawaganizire mozama.

46. ​​Makolo amphaka amakonda kuonetsetsa kuti mphaka wawo amawakonda mobwerezabwereza. Pamene mphaka akulira kunja kwa chitseko mu kusamba, ndiye kuopa kumira, ndi chikondi chenicheni; Dzinyembitse ndi lilime laling'ono, ndi chikondi chenicheni; Kugwira mbewa kupita kwawo ndiko kubwezera chiyamiko, ndiko kudzipezera okha, ndicho chikondi chenicheni; Ndi zina zotero. Koma musaiwale, kuyambira kukhazikitsidwa kwa People's Republic, nyama siziloledwa kukhala umuna.

47. Ndi bwino kusankha zinyalala za mphaka zomwe zimatha kutsukidwa, ndipo makamaka zomwe zingathe kuchotsedwa ndikutsukidwa lonse. Ndikhulupirireni, nyumba iliyonse ya mphaka yomwe sichitha kutsukidwa kwathunthu imangokhala nyumba yamphaka yotayidwa. Kuphatikiza apo, zinyalala za mphaka zomwe zimatha kutsukidwa kwathunthu zidzakhala zabwinoko mkati.

48. Nthawi zambiri anthu okalamba amanena kuti amphaka sayenera kutsekedwa kunyumba osati kwaulere. Zili mwa iwo, ndiye kupita kunja ndi kumunda, mphaka ndi ufulu kusaka, komanso sanabe mphaka wakuba, nkhanza, ndiye mwini mphaka kugwira mbewa, kawirikawiri sadyetsa mphaka, mphaka. kugwira mbewa kudya, koma tsopano mzinda konkire analibe mphaka phazi, ufulu zikutanthauza kuti kuzizira ndi njala, ndi kuzunzidwa nthawi iliyonse.