1. Ikagonedwa imadzinyambita ndikumamva fungo lake. Ndi fungo limene amphaka amamva kuti sitinganunkhire.wopanga zovala za galu
2. Njira zodziwika bwino zowonetsera "chikondi" ndikukulunga mchira, kugwira mwendo wanu ndi mutu kapena thupi lanu, ndikusisita kumbuyo kwa khutu kapena nkhope yanu motsutsana ndi inu. Lingaliro ndilokusiyirani fungo lodziwika bwino kuti likhale lomasuka, kapena kuti muzichita ngati wapansi wake.wopanga zovala za galu
3. Kukunyambita, monga kunyambita amphaka ena, kumasonyeza “kukhulupirira ndi chikondi.”wopanga zovala za galu
4. Mphaka akagona pamiyendo panu, ayenera kukhala ndi kuphwanya pa inu. Sichidzalumphira pamphumi pa munthu yemwe samukonda.
5. Akakubweretserani mphatso (monga mbewa yakufa), zimasonyeza kuti ali ndi "kuphwanya" pa inu, ndipo zimasonyezanso kuti akuganiza kuti ndinu "mayi" ake.
6. Mphaka wokhala ndi mchira wowongoka amasonyeza chikondi champhamvu. Mudzaona kuti mchira wa mphaka umalendewera ukayandikira anthu kapena amphaka omwe sakuwadziwa.
8. Kuyika chala pa mkono wanu kumatsimikiziranso kuti ili ndi "kuphwanya" pa inu.
9. Akapindika pang’onopang’ono msana wake ndi kukusisita mwendo wanu, amanena kuti, “Ndimakukondani.”
10. Amphaka purr pa zifukwa zambiri. Ngati amakunyozani akamakunyozani, “amakukondani kwambiri.”
Mu chilengedwe, amphaka monga nyama yokhayokha, bwino kupulumuka Mwina zimadalira paokha. Amphaka mwachibadwa amakhala amantha kwambiri kuposa nyama zomwe zimakhala m’magulu, monga anthu ndi agalu. Amphaka omwe saopa madzi amatha kumira, ndipo mantha amadzi ndi njira yomwe amphaka amapulumuka ndikuberekana. Wamanyazi komanso wosamala, ndiye zotsatira za kusankha kwachilengedwe, kupulumuka kwamphamvu kwambiri. 3. N’chifukwa chiyani amphaka amapanikizika mosavuta? Kodi ndizodzikuza kwambiri? Amphaka apakhomo amapanikizika mosavuta chifukwa amakhala m'magulu amakono a anthu. Makolo awo zaka masauzande apitawa sanawone magalimoto, kumva zowotcha moto ndi zokongoletsera, kapena kukhala ndi kuchuluka kwa anthu (zinthu zaumunthu + kusowa kwa adani achilengedwe). Makolo a amphaka amatha kuthawa zilombo kapena kukwera mitengo. Ngati mumadana ndi amphaka ena, mukhoza kuchoka kukakhala kutali. Palinso mabowo m'mitengo kapena m'miyala ya pogona, kotero kuti zovuta zambiri zimatha kusiya pakapita nthawi. Ndi malo omwe ndi oopsa kwambiri kuposa mzinda wa anthu, koma amamangidwa kuti agwirizane nawo, ndipo m'pamene chisokonezo chimachokera. Amphaka amatha kupsinjika maganizo, zomwe sizingatheke pansi pa "kusunga amphaka mumzinda". Monga mukufuna kulimbana mu mzinda waukulu, foothold, ndi kukumana mkulu mwamphamvu mpikisano ndi mavuto a moyo, kusiyana ndi: anthu akhoza kusankha, ndipo mphaka sangathe.
Nthawi yotumiza: Dec-28-2022